My heart is breaking

AMEN to that ~roll eyes~ Mfers alway lying on God ~geesh~

Punk asse mutt!

Hi There.

I am so sorry you are in so much pain right now.  I am asking GOD to provide you with comfort in your heart, mind, body and soul. If this man is TRULY, the man that GOD sees fit to be your husband... then it will be. If not, then have no worries because there must be a man that is even BETTER for you.

Pull yourself together, as much as you can, and walk with your head up high because what GOD has for you is only for you.

Huggies to you!!

I can only imagine how you are feeling right now.  My prayers go out to you today. Just remember that everything happens for a reason and nothing by chance.  Just know if God allowed this to happen, He has something better for you, or the timing isn't right.  Not our time but His time. You know sometimes men are scared of commitment and some times they want to be ready but they are not.  That takes nothing away from you!! Just to be brief:  I dated my kids father about twenty years ago, when I first met him I knew that he was the one.  After our first child, he still wasn't ready to settle and we did the friends with benefits and the whole nine yards.  We always kept in touch and talked, when went our separate ways, I got married to I man that I thought was God sent had everything that I wanted and for 5 of the almost 7 years of our marriage was hell.  I didn't know who he was and we were going in two different directions, he was selfish and jealous of my two kids, he loved my youngest son to death but my oldes who looks exactly like is daddy, he had issues with. So long story short after all of this I was broke down, stressed out and loss my sense of self, total opposite of who I am, because of what I thought God had brought me. It took me along time to leve this man because I had to make sure that it was ok, meaning "the God doesn't like divorce quote" but when God released me from that marriage and that weight lifted off of me guess who was sitting on the sideline coming to my rescue. My kids father, we've been together for 5 years now and had our first year anniversay Aug 10 last year.  We are emotional beings and nothing is wrong with that because that is the way God designed us but thank God for whatever he's doing right now.

Peace and blessings,
Tracey

I've been where you are and I know that pain.  It felt like thought my whole world had ended.  The  man I was with was a good man, but he wasn't the man that God intended for me.  It took some time to get over it and as time passed, I began to recognize and remember things from our relationship that ultimately would have caused problems down the road.  Now I can say I'm truly grateful that we didn't marry.

  Give yourself time to grieve.  For me, I found that it was too difficult to try to continue a friendship.  A clean break made the healing process easier.  You do what you have to do for you.

I had to post because I feel your pain...... 

first remember if it is really for you ....and he is a man that hears from God he will repent (have a change of heart)....

Thinking and knowing are two different things asking God for someone and him saying yes is also different....  You dont sound like you knew he was the one which means you wanted him to be the one.   I know this hurts but you my sister will be okay.....Let me give you the good news.

It is the will of God for you to be happy and that prayer you prayed all those years ago...God remembers now here is the thing you said he had 95% ....Baby that aint good enough...God does not do 95...So he is not going to give something you did not ask for.  you did not asked him to have 95 %.....  Another thing...know this..the counterfeit always comes before the real thing...That is how we know that the real thing is around the corner. 

When I got hung up and head over heels crazy behind the guy that died a few months ago.  I was devastated I was hurt because I finally found someone I gelled with .....but he  was only 60% once I got past the tears and the sadness and the loneliness I began to see and realized that God loved me so much that he would never give me a portion of the blessing I would get it all.  I now have potential in front of me.  I have a couple of people that are measuring up even more than I imagined.  It is a process...it is not over ...but I guarantee it will be worth the heartache and pain you feel now...it will be worth the wait.  I love you...God bless you and he will take care of you.

di

you betta preach pastor!!! 

"Another thing...know this..the counterfeit always comes before the real thing...That is how we know that the real thing is around the corner. "


Ohm... Now that is the word for today... fa' show

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You better know that blessing are not given in partial installments.  God supplies all our needs.  And once you learn to love you unconditionally and not look for outside validation, you will be victorious.  The one that is meant for you will enhance your qualities as well as you enhancing his.  I am here to tell you you will not have to ask is he the one.  Baby the connection that you will have that is bound by GOd will be so strong, you will know you have meet your soul mate.  The one thing I have realized is GOD doesn't give me anything I am not ready for.  If I struggle with loving myself how can I possibly love another.  So the pain is the preparation to build you up to be the woman that your soul mate desires.  We won't meet Mr. Right until we get it right.

Just remember  if God brought you to it, he'll bring you through it. You never know what He has in store for you. He just might be preparing that man that is your 100%. My prayers go out to you!

Mama  Keep your head up..... if its right... it will be..